Dippin’ and Dancing With the Sirens

Embracing S.A.F.E.T.Y.
(pt.1 Serendipity)






Such a whimsical, mystical, magical word, with a pretty simple meaning.

Rather than give a definition, let’s use a little story…


It’s summer time and love is in the air, but let’s say you’re not feeling very spontaneous or outgoing… You say to yourself…


“Hey, I don’t want to be single any more, I’m oh so smart and sexy, and I want to spread a little love… You know what, I’m going to construct a plan!”

“I’m going to find myself the perfect girl/ boy/ man/ women/ girlfriend/ partner/ hubby/ wifey/ bae/ suitor/ slide/ side piece/ beefcake/ dime/ thot/ or whatever it is that you’re looking for…

Then you produce to construct and flesh out every single minor detail of a plan, from end to end, top to bottom, over and over, and over again… Dating sites, friends of friends, family referrals, community events, etc, etc…

Then all of a sudden, while your walking out the door to put your plan into tremendous into action, you slip on that second step from the bottom (that slippery one), you smack your head on the ground (oh God!), and have to be rushed off to the hospital…

There’s goes your tremendous plan….. But wait!
You wake up in the hospital to find yourself being taking care of by the most beautiful helpful and nurturing female/male nurse you’ve ever encountered and she/he likes you…

The point of this is… When things don’t work out for YOUR plan, that doesn’t mean things aren’t working out for you!


The first component of

Embracing S.A.F.E.T.Y.


Stay Tuned…


~~~~Spread L.I.G.H.T.~~~~

Follow me to the greatest heights of love!









~~~~Spread L.I.G.H.T.~~~~


Bandele’s coaching has been a blessing in my life. His ability to listen with empathy and let his students find their own solutions is a rare gift. He has provided me with great advice on how to live a healthier life. I would like to personally vouch for Bandele as a life coach. His work has proven itself!
– Kushal Patel

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